Why do I say that? I believe if both parties can accommodate, tolerate and love each other as long as their marriage lasts.Despite not being really madly in love at first sight(there must have been some mutual attraction at first), their love can develop during,after and LONG after their marriage.Of course, there is the sad scenario where the couples are incapable of loving one another enough and the matrimony turns sour.Whatever the case, it sure beats waiting or looking unsuccessfully for the right person to turn up.I guess to these group of people that just whack and find a spouse believe that its better to have loved than to have never loved before.
However, there are also some people who believe in finding 'The One'.Life is a gamble,and when you gamble, luck is involved. This second group are people that live life passionately. They choose the path that most more conservative Asians seldom take. To them, its either true unconditioned love or just a simple life without that aspect of romantic and sensual love.(There is also filial love and love between platonic friends).Though the feeling of finding that special someone is way beyond words,these people face a problem.How would they know that the person they find is really 'The One'.Is there a foolproof way to check?And if they already are married to their 'The One' after searching for many years and one day they regret their decision,what are they to do?Is your gut feeling for that few years able to last you half your entire lifetime? Seems daunting to me.
What do you think? Any comments?
This post is open to comments because these are my views.I don't know even know which group I would want to follow yet.
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by yangz // 10:59 pm
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Ok my views on this. Dont get too intimidated by it though, cos im gonna look at it from my point of view, the Christianity point of view la. :D
Haha..erh. I believe that life is not a gamble. Everything you go through is planned, yes even the shit you encounter and the pits u fall into. I had ex-es before the current boyfriend and they all played me out, so it was definitely a bad experience for me. But then, it made me treasure a real relationship even more becos i learnt so much from my experience, including what to look out for in a guy, and how to keep a rship going yada yada. Besides that, i think i wouldnt be who i am if not for what ive been through lor.
And im sure thats true for everyone else too. :)
Didnt trust guys for awhile after that, but God had His plans for me, and now im happily attached to -him- for 5 years now! yayyy. hahaha.
Oh and one last point. I dont believe in marriage without love. Its nonsense la. :\ Why torture yourself? Canot then dont lor. Single adults are sooo RICH! :p
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